The Gentleman's Guide to Online DatingDON'T WORRY It's Not You, It's Your Approach To Online Dating Like with so many other aspects of attracting women: It's not YOU, it's the way you're presenting yourself and approaching women. You may be doing one of the many tiny things that cause women to "NEXT" you online: Your profile's honest and serious, but boring Your pictures make you look like a lonely man (more often than you'd think) You fail to evoke an emotional reaction She imagines that